As I try to recall my encounters when I was in another country, I’ve met a lot of people who in one way have affected the way I think and see life. This is the first of a series of giving honor to these people.
The first time I met Jay, I saw a strong-willed person in him. He knows how to deal with things in life. He carries his life in a light but dependable manner. I never will forget the times where he tried to mediate during a scuffle between his former housemates. He calmly went to both parties hearing each others’ side and convey messages of reconciliation for both parties. Things didn’t turn out good and quick but through his persistence it all became settled.
He is known as the computer man in the group as he handles all the computer troubleshooting and maintenance in the house. He has even branched out by serving his new found friends in line with his computer expertise. A very profitable skill in the long run as his clientele continues to increase (hey bro…if after this post, more people look for you, don’t forget my referral fee….hehehehe).
He is dependable most specially in the culinary needs of the group. My former housemates know what I mean. He does most of the early morning cooking for the group without any complains. It takes a great deal of patience and commitment doing this. Though sometimes, he wakes up late ending up with cooking food in a rush (bahala na basta maunuran lang ang tiyan…hehehehe).
He is also a person who loves his family so much. He thinks more of the welfare of his parents and siblings over himself. He tries to provide the things needed by his family here in the Philippines. A great manifestation of responsibility I may say.
Most of all, he is a very committed person to his girlfriend. I saw how much he tries hard to keep the issue of distance affect their relationship. He calls more frequently and chats with his special someone on a daily basis (…big thanks for the Internet). Now, that’s what I call dedication to the highest level. Goldie Mae…lucky you.
Jay has made me reflect on a lot of aspects in my life. He made me realize and value the things that I have to appreciate and thank for. I honor your friendship. Our paths shall cross again and I will happily remember all the goodness you’ve shown.
